“Coming to therapy has made me realize how wonderful people can be and how incredible it is when we hold space for one another.”

In 2023, U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy called loneliness “the epidemic of our time”- impacting health as much as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Over 60% of U.S. adults report feeling lonely, with young adults between 18-22 being the most affected. Relational poverty is more devastating than its economic counterpart.

It is a deep lack of meaningful connections with others that allows us to survive and be well. Loneliness isn’t just being alone—it’s feeling alone and despite our thousands of “friends”, “followers”, and “connections” amassed on social media sites, we are feeling alone. School hallways between class changes have become quieter than ever because kids are on their phones instead of chatting with their peers. Families spend time in the home together where each family member is looking at a different screen. It is connectedness that allows people to heal.

At The Refuge Center for Counseling, we harness the power of connection every day to promote healing and hope. Through individual therapy, group sessions, and family counseling, we help over 4,000 clients annually find hope and regain freedom in their lives. But we need your support to continue this vital work.

Therapy provides social interactions. It teaches adults, teens and kids the skills to connect again with themselves and with others. It provides a place where people have a therapist’s undivided attention in a world of distraction. Through therapy people feel seen, known and heard. Often clients learn to how to better connect with others and then they seek out ways to cultivate more quality connections in their relationships. The counseling experience often offers a place where some of the loneliest parts of us can come out from hiding and find a safe place for expression and connection.

This year, when you give, YOU:

  • Provide counseling for those who otherwise lack access to mental health care
  • Support children and teens struggling to connect in an increasingly digital world
  • Restore hope to families and individuals searching for belonging and purposeAs we close this year, join us in creating a stronger, more connected community.Your donation directly impacts lives, offering the care, guidance, and connection that so many need. Proverbs 3:27 reminds us, “If it is within your power to do good, do not withhold it from those who deserve it.” No one deserves to walk alone. Thank you for considering a year-end gift. Together, we can fight the loneliness epidemic and offer the gift of connection, hope, and healing.

 “When we are broken from something, it’s like this glass gets shattered and we have all these jagged edges that hurt the people close to us even if we don’t want them to. I was experiencing that in my life. As I’ve started to allow God to heal those pieces, I’ve just noticed so much more healing in my relationships. Communication is easier, and I really believe it is so important for us. It can seem selfish sometimes for us to go to counseling, but I believe it is the opposite of selfishness because you’re actually preserving the people close to you from your jagged edges.” 

“What a relief it was to be able to have a place of security and comfort when life just seemed so upside down.”

“My counselor walked through the trenches with me; in every stage of grief, through every changing emotion, she shed light on the truth and helped me to find the strength that was still mine, through Christ.”

“The Refuge Center has really saved our family. Our counselor has helped each and every one in our family. We all know we have a friend and confidant in her.”